I got to play Peacock Gap on a beautiful afternoon yesterday and played very inconsistently. As far as score goes, a 98 on that course pretty much sucks in my book; but, you know what? I am clearer than ever before about what went wrong, and that’s a great step in the right direction toward learning to play better golf.
Thanks in large part to my recent Extraordinary Golf school experience, I am more aware than ever that I was not connected to my easeful resources. While I was at the golf school, I invented an intention that I called my “stress-free swing of enjoyment.” Simply stated, that’s the playful swing where I just let it go. Not unconsciously, but also not with the kind of trying-too-hard, blocked energy that I let take over much of yesterday’s round.
Sure, there were some good shots and even one birdie; but as a body awareness professional and friend that I’m working with, Sabine Grandke-Taft, told me, “You have to know what you do before you can do what you want.” In this way, I am waking up to what I’m doing so that I can learn to swing like I want. This is actually a wonderful and empowering awareness that I am sure will ultimately produce more fun and enjoyment along with less stress and lower scores.
Stay tuned.





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Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackHi Jon,
No evaluation in Play. No judgements, no wrong or right. Like reporting on a sunrise, you just play.
Thank you. Easy to say. Not so easy to just play. At least not for me. But I’m making progress. Progress, not perfection. Play is all there is. Really. Thanks much for your comment!
Hi Jon,
When I get mad, I am not playing. When things get hard our there, I am not playing. Harvey Pennick tells us to “take dead aim.” I say, “anywhere is OK.”
Play on, Jon.
Thanks! I really appreciate this comment. I am working with exactly this: Staying with and coming back to (when I lose this focus) an attitude of play; and wherever the ball goes that’s OK. I’m releasing my old pattern of calling myself names when a shot doesn’t work out. Rather, I’m just saying “oh well,” and then lightening up even more by remembering how grateful I am to be healthy, out in nature, just enjoying myself… Just PLAYING! Thanks again.
Yesterday I hit a ball that was right on the edge of being “not OK.” Quickly, before judgment and evaluation reared their ugly heads, I thought of my health and my wonderful family. “Not OK” was not even an afterthought. I played on.
In other words, “it’s ALL good.”
thanks for another excellent comment!
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